Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Erogenous zones and foreplay....



When I’m with a guy (or a female), I love lots of foreplay! Love to find those little spots that fucking drive him (or her) wild!! And I love it when he (or she) finds mine too…. I’m sure you have a few of those spots… those fucking erogenous zones that get you all the fucking more excited… and then you end up having the hottest fuck ever after the fucking wonderful foreplay…. So check out the following and see which erogenous zones excite you the most….



Erogenous zones and foreplay: Behind the Knees


Thinner skin and plenty of nerve endings behind the knees mean that the right tickle here (think kissing, finger trailing, massaging) can send sensation straight up your thighs and into a serious hot spot.


               


Erogenous zones and foreplay: The Scalp

Ask your partner to make your nerve-ending-filled scalp a priority, giving you a scalp massage. Having him rub this area will release tension and increase blood flow — both key elements of foreplay.


 
Erogenous zones and foreplay: The Ears

 









That old blowing-in-the-ear move is often more silly than seductive, but kissing, gentle sucking or even a tender, well-placed lick can be tantalizing in the ear area.














Erogenous zones and foreplay: The Lips


There’s a reason that making out in high school made you feel electric, and it’s not just because you were overly dramatic about everything back then. The lips are one of the most erotic spots on your body; they have more nerve endings than most any other part of your body. Five minutes of kissing on the couch — especially if you vary the technique (slow, fast, a flitting tongue) — can make heading into the bedroom extra stimulating.




   
         
 
Erogenous zones and foreplay: The Neck


















Let’s admit that we’ve all checked out Twilight. Vampires are onto something: necks. They’re curved, lovely and highly sensual, plus they can be approached from behind. May we suggest light kisses leading from your hairline to the nape of your neck? That should get things going.




Erogenous zones and foreplay: Wrists



Seeing a trend? The pulse points where you might spritz a bit of fragrance (neck, knees) are on this list because they’re extra sensitive, with nerve endings close to the surface of the skin, and wrists are no exception. A light nuzzle here can rev you up, and the best part is, it’s a move that your partner can do in public with no one any the wiser.


















Erogenous zones and foreplay: Nipples













Nipples are responsive to all types of caressing, kissing, touching, teasing. Because they’re so filled with nerve endings, they can get you very stimulated especially when combined with touches to other parts of the body. Just be sure you communicate about the level of nipple fondling and playing that you like.






Erogenous zones and foreplay: Feet

















Get him to take his socks off, grab the lotion and get rubbing. “Men love foot massages,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, a New York City sex expert and the author of many books, including She Comes First. Additionally, according to the ancient practice of reflexology, the heels of the feet are believed to be pressure points that can trigger sexual arousal. Want to up the ante? Dr. Kerner suggests brushing his feet against your mouth or breasts (or other body parts), which can really get him excited.


Erogenous zones and foreplay: Lower abs and stomach



Start at his belly button and work your hands or mouth south. Dr. Kerner suggest, “The area of the abdomen between the navel and pelvis is a fun area to tantalize, and as blood flows to the pelvis and sexual tension gathers, it’s a good area to simulate,” he says, adding that “by going from genitals to other areas and then back again you will develop sexual tension throughout the body.”










Erogenous zones and foreplay: Inner Thighs

Think of his inner thighs as the “gift wrapping to his package,” recommends Levine, who says that light touching in this zone can get him in the mood—fast. Here’s how: “Slowly move your fingertips up and down his inner thighs,” she says. “Then, tease him by following the outline of the crevice of his thigh, sensuously moving your index and middle finger up and down this hot spot for a few strokes before pressing the palm of your hand on the top of his thigh to start again with your fingertips.”



Erogenous zones and foreplay: Forehead


His forehead may not seem like a sexy spot, but try to “think of the male body as a totally erogenous landscape,” says Dr. Kerner. After all, the head and scalp are covered with nerve endings, and lightly massaging from his hairline to his forehead can trigger feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin that may just get him in the mood. And of course, the same can have the same effect on a female!

 


Erogenous zones and foreplay: The butt


Yes, most of us already know the truth about this… men and women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of people like mild (or even not so mild) spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there’s more… many also love having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated with fingers and tongue (not to mention penis which often follows the foreplay! hehe)



















Erogenous zones and foreplay: Armpits

























While attention to one’s armpits may prove to be erotic, quite often it is more erotic to the person paying the attention! The scent, the sweat, the masculinity… all of it combined can cause you to get all the more excited….

 
 
 
Erogenous zones and foreplay: The mind



Whisper something sexy in his ear, says Barbara Bartlik, MD, a New York City–based sex therapist. The mind is a powerful erogenous zone for men, she says. “Very recent, innovative research suggests that a heightened state of arousal in the generalized central nervous system (the brain) facilitates sexual arousal.” When his mind begins to get excited, his body follows suit. So go ahead… whisper something fucking dirty into his ear… get him fucking excited by what you are saying to him and about him….




















Okay, so most of you already know that I fucking love lots of foreplay… makes the sex all the better whether I’m fucking a man or a woman! You just saw 14 posts about various erogenous zones involved in foreplay including behind the knees, the scalp, the ears, the lips, the neck, the wrists, the nipples, the feet, the lower abs and stomach, the inner thighs, the forehead, the butt, the armpits, and the mind. So, what erogenous zone is your most favorite to be stimulated during foreplay? Perhaps you have another area that wasn’t even listed… so tell us, what do you like… what makes you fucking wild and excited during foreplay?



So I was asked which erogenous zones I like having stimulated during foreplay… I guess I can argue that I would enjoy all of them in the list to some extent… BUT there are definitely some that I enjoy a whole fucking lot more than others… Hmmmmm… so thinking through the various erogenous zones, and reliving the memories of enjoyment of stimulation I have had during foreplay, I have a few that top my list… Perhaps my favorite is stimulation of my inner thighs… that drives me wild… your hands massaging inside my legs… moving up and down my inner thighs… closer and closer to my midsection and my penis and balls… actually making me drip extra precum! Then 2nd would be my neck… fuck yeah! I love having my neck kissed and licked… makes shivers go up and down my spine and up and down the shaft of my cock… getting me all the harder! My 3rd preferential erogenous zone area for stimulation is my lower stomach and waist area… always love when you put your hands (or lips) down there and gradually slide your fingers under the waist band of my pants… teasing me, exciting me! Foreplay and stimulation of the various erogenous zones on my body (especially the top three on my list) get me so fucking excited!!! FUCK… get your ass over here and start the foreplay… find my favorite erogenous zones… drive me wild… get me fucking hard… enjoy some hot sex with me!!!! And during all the foreplay together, I will explore your body and find your favorite erogenous zones… I will drive you wild also!!! Like I said… I fucking love foreplay!!!!!!!!!





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