My friend asks for me to share some insight with him....

My good friend sent me a message on tumblr:

I bet. You’ve had quite the dry spell. I met a guy who lives 4 hours away. Same age. He just came out. What was it like the first time? Am I crazy. I love my wife but want that hot man2man. Does it get easier? I know she can never give me what a guy can and vice versa. I know you understand please share some insight. Thanks.

 

My answer to him:

Yep... too fucking long of a dry spell... or maybe I'm just becoming more picky in who I get with... there have been some that wanted to get with me but I wasn't really into them... there was a time when I would just go ahead and fuck around with a guy even if I wasn't interested just so that I didn't hurt his feelings... awwww how fucking sensitive of me LOL

Anyway... tell me more about this guy who lives 4 hours away... I take it that he isn't married... or maybe he is and has come out to his wife...

So... NO... FUCK NO... you are NOT crazy... I know exactly what you are saying... what you are feeling... I love my wife too... I don't want to do any fucking thing to hurt her... but she just doesn't fucking understand what I feel... how I feel... how I get just as fucking turned on (and some days more so) with a guy than with a woman... than with her....

There just are some things that there is no way she could ever satisfy for me... I really do enjoy fucking her pussy... enjoyed fucking it last night... And when I want a woman... I want a woman... and when I want a man... I want a man... That's why I rarely fuck around with a fem type guy... I want my men to be masculine... I love scruffy faced guys... I love hairy guys... I love rugged guys... I love muscular guys... I love real men... men like me... She doesn't comprehend this... I've tried to explain it in the past and it just made things worse between us... and she has caught me looking at gay porn and she fucking can't stand the thoughts of that... I wonder why some women get fucking turned on by thinking of their man with another man and other women just can't handle it???
 
My first time???  Well, I did fuck around in high school with my bro and some neighbor boys... and in college with a couple of friends... I guess I didn't really think much about doing that until I was married and then it was like I was cheating on her... but then I'd think to myself, justify to myself that cheating would be with a woman... I'm just having a little fun with a guy... some fun that I fucking want and need that she can't meet... I actually didn't fuck around with guys after we were married for quite awhile... I think it was for about 7 years... haha... is there something to that about a 7 year itch??? 

Frank was the first guy I fucked since being married.  I wrote about my hot fucks with Frank awhile back and posted it on my tumblr CLICK HERE TO READ THAT ACCOUNT (I am compiling my accounts of several of my hottest fucks with guys and will post the whole thing on here whenever I finally finish all the accounts)... So how did I feel with that first experience as a married man fucking another man (Frank is totally gay)???  Well, there were all kinds of emotions... FUCK! I fucking loved fucking with a guy again after such a fucking long time!  I needed it! I fucking enjoyed it!  But then... the guilt would set in... and I would try to justify it in my mind and then I would try to avoid it... and I would go a few days or a few weeks and not get with Frank and then I would be so fucking horny needing to be with another man, naked with another man, sucking the cock of another man, feeling his scruffy face against mine, feeling my cock up his tight ass, that I would leave home early in the morning on my way to work and I would call Frank and see if I could cum over for a hot fuck. I needed it and he needed it and so there we went again two men fucking together fulfilling our desires and needs... 

Then I met some other guys, it got easier to get with a guy each time... yet, I still am apprehensive the first time I get with a dude... don't know what to expect, what their expectations are, what he'll be like, etc.  That's why I've liked the times when I've had a regular fuck buddy (or friend with benefits, whichever it is LOL) because then I get to know the guy and what he likes and what turns him on and what drives him fucking wild.  I do enjoy getting with new guys, the thrill of exploring a different male body... but I feel more comfortable with a man that I'm already used to.  (But listen to me... here I've fucked quite a few different men and I talk about preferring being with one I know, one I've fucked before... haha... okay... so yeah, I DO like the thrill of a new man in bed... especially if it is his first time to ever be with another guy... that is always fucking hot to me!!!). 

So the dude that you've met, how much experience has he had?  What is he expecting from you? What would you want from him?  Besides some fucking hot man2man sex LOL!!!  Seriously, though, I prefer a guy with NSA because I can't be tied down by one since I DO love my wife and don't want to give up that relationship.  Some guys hate it that I'm married, while others fucking love the thoughts of fucking around with a dude who is married to a woman and fucks women as well as men.  If you get up the nerve to pursue sex with this guy, and you two meet, just be sure that you agree to do only that what you both feel comfortable with.  If either of you don't want something, then back off... perhaps it will happen at some other time, perhaps not... but don't force it. 

So here are some questions to ask yourself:
How fucking bad do you want this? How fucking much do you need to fuck around with another man? What are your fears of getting with a man? Are you afraid of being found out? Do you want to be totally on the down low, under the radar, and totally in the closet? How would your wife react if she knew that you were fucking with a man? How easy would it be for you to get away and fuck with him? If you can't get together frequently, will that make you more frustrated? Or will you be somewhat satisfied that you've had the experience? Do you think you will feel guilty? Are you dripping precum right now thinking about being with another man? hmmmmm... so I bet you are... I bet your cock is rock solid hard at the thoughts of being face2face, skin2skin, lips2lips, cock2cock, man2man! I bet your cock IS dripping precum! I know that you've shot loads and loads of cum thinking about being with a man.  I'm right, I know!!!  So, when you think about all the questions, I bet that no matter how you've answered them, you are so fucking ready to fuck with this guy! (but of course you do fucking realize that I'm fucking jealous because I fucking wanna be the fucking man you are fucking with!!!!!) 

I probably haven't given much insight or help... but I do know that you are NOT fucking crazy! You want it! You need it! You are gonna keep thinking about it until you experience it! And when you experience it, you may feel guilt and other negative emotions! But then because you've experienced it, you WILL want to do it again. Does it get easier? Yes and No... in some ways it is easier the more you do it... yet in some ways meeting new people (to me) never gets easier... but it is easier now because I feel like I know what I'm doing with a man now having had a lot of experience haha...  okay, think about the first time you fucked a girl... I don't know how old you were when you lost your virginity to a female and I don't know how many girls you have fucked, BUT has it gotten easier? Do you remember the first time you made out with a chick? Even if you didn't have intercourse. Every time you fucked around with a girl, it got easier, you were more comfortable, and you felt like you knew more what you were doing. At first it was awkward... then it becomes natural... and I'm sure you felt fucking great the first time you fucked a pussy... and you may have even felt a little guilty or ashamed after your first time fucking a chick... but you got over it... and you know that by having sex again and again with a woman, you've felt even more pleasure when you were more experienced and were able to please each other because you knew what you were doing and what you both liked.  Same thing with a guy... think of it just like that... your first time you might not (probably won't) do everything two men can do with each other man2man. But you will enjoy it, get excited by it, and have a fucking great orgasm.  Then the next time it will be even better! (even if you do have to get past that guilt or whatever!)

So, dude, what are you thinking now? What are your answers to some of the things I've asked or said? What questions have you thought of now? I definitely want to hear more from you... discuss more...  (and of course I wish I was there experiencing some fucking hot man2man with you right now... but if it isn't me with you, then I want to hear all about your experiences with the other guy that you first fuck with!)


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Note:  As I stated above, this question was asked by a friend on tumblr.  At the current time, I have 3 tumblr blogs with different content in each.  The first one, my main one, is my man2man tumblr (adam2adamtn.tumblr.com) which shows mostly gay male content with a little bit of bi sprinkled in. But most of my bi posting I put on my man2woman (and man2man2woman) tumblr (adam2eve.tumblr.com) where you will find that bi content along with str8 sex posts.  My third tumblr is my non-porn relax with... books, coffee, music, and more... (relax-with.tumblr.com).  Check them all out and see which ones you enjoy!